I'm the oldest girl. I have two brothers older than me and two younger and then my baby sister falls last in the birth chart. Everyone's personality in my family can easily be understood by referring to our birth order. As the eldest girl, I  had a load responsibilities, one of them taking care of my younger siblings and older ones too(they were big babies)... that and in our culture the girl assumes most of the responsibilities... and my mom never trusted my brothers to do a thing... cause they never actually did when they promised they would.

As an individual, I do my best to take responsibility of everything going on around me and I hate asking for help. It feels like torture to me. I'm stubborn in probably every way.Most of the time, I would rather bottle things up and handle everything on my own than admit that I need a hand. I'm also a bit defensive, because my parents have always placed a load of expectations on me  that seemed impossible to meet.  But I guess thats parents... and the role that  birth  order has played on my personality. 

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well one of the nicest things a strangers has ever done......

The other day I was walking into the bank, and a stranger was exiting while I was entering, and he not only kept the door open for me,  but while I was about to throw away a few pieces of wrappers in my hand ( a few pieces of trash I collected from my car), he offered to throw them away for me... after taking him up on his offer.. I thanked him  and smiled...and he smiled back....with a God bless you ... anyways...I thought it was a sweet gesture.

   

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